What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and existence, without a standard type and established outcome. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Of course, constantly with respect for (mutual) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and often even at the depths of body and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, happy state of being. The result is typically a fantastic physical, mental well-being. Typically, the receiver is very relaxed, wonderfully streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
Tantra massage is given from the heart. Most touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is actually like that touches. The recipient is also present, and gets active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart.
Loaded with attention and existence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch complete of attention and presence. Don't look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on giving or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are actually out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. You never understand how it will end up. It is not the method or the desired sequence of rubbing that is very important, it has to do with what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the moment? Exactly what benefits her/him? Love understands exactly what to do, love constantly has an appropriate reaction. And so the massage will be precisely that exactly what is needed. Adequate is that the provider is present and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore frequently take an extremely unexpected course. Everything fits into a bigger whole. A tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in bliss. A "stopped working" massage can be the initial step in an excellent advancement.
The best ways to get the best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We knew it for a long period of time, of course, but considering that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually shown up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who require their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Naturally, this has little to do with tantric massage. The security of both provider and receiver constantly must be guaranteed. Loving attunement constantly comes initially.
Set clear limits ahead of time
Every person (except when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is likewise essential (check out the article on protecting boundaries. So think beforehand (both as provider and receiver) what your limits are. Make certain there is an appropriate intake, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits ahead of time: about mental borders, as well as take care for clarity about physical borders. It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage should always be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is also entirely ok (though hard to deal with oil then). It is also a misconception that a tantric massage need to be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have actually given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head. Likewise, in addition, really each cell is sensual, however you will be impressed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation easily
Activating and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erogenous zones can also be touched. Naturally, always with regard for (shared) limits. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an important role once again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ development/ instinctive energy.
Concentrated on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life focused on growing in love and consciousness. In a split second you can become informed (by 1000% surrender), however generally, that is a process in time. Tantra knows different methods to use on the journey to knowledge. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has Tantric Massage Chelsea no function aside from self-realization: bring back the natural (ecstatic) state of being.
Generally resulting in a wonderful physical, mental well-being
Tantra helps you to become more relaxed, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring and so far more. Actually, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Because this is exactly what takes place frequently: the recipient is enjoying it! Taking pleasure in is completely enabled! A tantra massage is usually nice, sometimes delicious. We, for that reason, invite you to totally take pleasure in getting ánd offering a tantric massage. Feel, utilize your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and methods in common. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (targeted at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (intended at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) treatment (targeted at recovery).
Well due to the fact that you are really extremely energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, but treatment is an occupation apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the short article on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand out:
Tantra massage tips-- before you start
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide great conditions (physically, however likewise mentally).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Ensure your massage is need complimentary, do not push or require anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... do absolutely nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Provide feedback (satisfaction noises?).
* Integrate in combination (rest) minutes.
Some masseurs are more/mainly concerned with what they themselves find enjoyable, enjoyable, desirable. A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your very own "requirements", remain away from your very own problems and above all ... do not attempt to force anything. Nothing has to be done, nothing is needed! Once again, don't attempt to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Possibly you are dissatisfied when someone falls asleep. You might not be awaiting a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No desired result. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 crucial tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect borders, set clear borders ahead of time. Our masseuses are mostly extremely open minded - they are naturally because of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, naturally. However, know that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being aroused is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are really essential! A lot can show up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing minutes. Prevent limits from being crossed once again.
* Step by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and provide integration moments (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual complete satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not release, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean don't rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy construct and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and relaxed (but you will not drop off to sleep). During/after the massage it ends up being quiet in your head (often entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential recovery impact. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as healing, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover what it is like to love yourself.
Is delighting in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you might become not just joyful however even joyous. A happy state of being is possible. The more you give up, the better you will feel.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Full of attention and existence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (mutual) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the giver and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Typically leading to a wonderful physical, psychological wellness (of both).